Born to Fly Podcast

080-5 things I do to reach my goals before the end of the year

Episode Summary

What's the point of setting goals if you don't reach them? The year isn't over yet, so you can still achieve your goals. This episode will cover 5 ways how to do that.

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You'd be surprised what you can get done in a couple of months.

If you apply some of the tactics Jane shares in this episode, you will be able to achieve the goals you've set for this year.

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Book: Redeeming Your Time by Jordan Raynor 

Luke 14:28

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Episode Transcription

5 things I do to reach my goals before the end of the year

Hey, my name is Jane, I’m one of the hosts of this podcast and the founder of Born to Fly, a platform and community for Christian solopreneurs who want to become confident, efficient, and more Christlike. 

In these snippets, I share some insights that have helped me in becoming a better solopreneur, both in character and practical way, and today I want to share something about goal setting.

It’s in my nature to plan and set goals. That might be different for you. You might be a more go-with-the-flow type of person or you’re somewhere in-between. 
I tried go-with-the-flow for a little while—thought it was cooler and more popular, and I thought it might be better for God to move in my life. If I go with the flow, it might be easier for God to interfere with my plans. But that wasn’t true for me. While trying to be a go with the flow type of person but I was ignoring one of my talents which is discipline. 

God can always interfere with your plans, whether you’re a planner or not. For God to interfere there has to be a flexible approach in my way of doing and I have to always search God in whatever I’m doing. 
But I don’t want to get into that today, I want to talk about reaching the goals that you’ve set because many set them but actually few reach them.

When I started as a solopreneur, I created a couple of goals for my branding business. I got excited but as I struggled along, the goals weren’t met and eventually I forgot about them altogether. Then, when the new year was about to start, I set new goals. And to do that, I looked at the ones from previous year and thought, Oh, were these my goals? I didn’t even work on that, I didn’t meet that goal, oh and I forgot about this one…

It was pretty pathetic. What’s the point of setting goals if you are not intentionally trying to achieve them?

So, I wanted to change that because I knew integrating goal setting in my work was gonna be beneficial for my business, so I introduced goal setting to the Born to Fly community. Instead of doing it alone, I thought it would be better to do it together with others! Win-win!
We came up with a system based mostly on the book Redeeming Your Time by Jordan Raynor. And that system worked for us. So what I’m going to share next is based on that.

Now, I don’t know where you’ve written or typed down your goals, but mine are in a Google excel sheet. That is, my business goals.
My personal goals and family goals are in a journal. I like to write everything on paper but I need my professional goals to be accessible at all times. 

I try to limit the number of goals per calling or topic to 5. The goals that I have set for the Born to Fly platform don’t exceed that number. 

For my freelance writing I have 5 goals. 
Motherhood 3. 
Family 3, Spiritual 1, etc. 
More goals are harder to achieve and harder to remember. Of course, you can always add more goals if you reached them after 6 months or so but don’t add more before achieving the set goals. 

So after setting those goals, how do I make sure I reach them?

Let’s take a spiritual goal such as “reading the entire bible in one year,” as an example and apply my tactics to this goal.

  1. I chop up the goal into digestible chunks.

Meaning, tinier steps that I can accomplish within a week or 3 months. If I want to read the Bible in one year, how much do I have to read each day? If I know I need to read 15 minutes a day, then it’s easier for me to implement in my schedule. The same is true for instance for increasing your newsletter subscribers. What you need to do might be to post about it on social media at least once a week. 

2. I track my progress.

What comes with checking progress is looking at your goals regularly—as I told you, this is what I didn’t do in the beginning. How can you remind yourself about your goals? For instance, by putting sticky notes around the house and write down your progress, or create a habit of checking your goals weekly, or become part of an accountability group as I did. 
If I have neglected reading the Bible for 15 minutes a day, I know I’m behind and I need to up my game. 

3. I am held accountable.

It works well to share your goal with others. This could be in a group at church, with your partner, with other solopreneurs, or with a friend. I was lucky enough to be able to share my goals with my Born to Fly community and discussing our progress weekly.

For our example: tell a friend that you are reading the Bible in one year and ask if your friend can ask about the progress every other month or so.

4. I schedule time to work on my goals

Nothing gets done without planning. The Bible gives a perfect example in Luke 14:28. It says: 

“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?”

You can’t build a tower without a plan. The financial aspect is just one of the things you need to look over before you know if you can continue with the project.

So, if I want to read the Bible in a year, I need to plan when I am going to read the bible. Before going to bed? In the morning? During lunch break? During the kids’ nap time? If I don’t schedule, I won’t get further than saying I will read some passages this week. That’s not very specific and it means it just won’t get done. There are always too many things going on, distracting me and leading me away from doing the task or even thinking about it. It’s easy to forget what I need to do so, long story short: just plan time to do it.

5. I fight to overcome negative thoughts.

At some point, I might not even be halfway through the Bible and it’s already October. It starts to look like it’s impossible to have read the entire Bible by the end of the year. It would be easy to give up now or adjust the goal to “read the bible in 2 years”. So I can go too gentle on myself. Or I could go the other way: I start punishing myself by calling myself names and talking myself down. I have a tendency to do the latter, but I know that God wouldn’t talk me down. Negative thoughts can only come from the enemy. So what I do is I tell myself I can still do it. I look at how far I’ve come already, and I ask others to help me. A friend could read along with me. I could ask my husband to watch after the kids for half a day on the weekend so I can catch up on reading. I could re-divide my goal into digestible chunks again, adjusted to the time I have left in the year. You'd be surprised what you still can get done in a few months.

To summarize: these are the 5 tactics I use to accomplish my goals before the end of the year

Eventually, I have to acknowledge I’m dependent on God, therefore I have to surrender my goals to Him. I cannot accomplish anything of eternal benefit on my own strength. I may set my path and make plans, but God will direct and determine the steps. 

It means that at the end of the year, I might not have reached all of my goals, but that is fine. I have full confidence that when I give it my all, God will help me achieve what is important. After all, I’m working for His Kingdom, following His lead. 

So dear listener, I hope that this little snippet will help you in accomplishing your goals before the end of the year. Pray about your goals, which ones are important to God? Then give it your very best, your full commitment, and enjoy whilst working on them. 

There are definitely more steps to make sure you can achieve your goals, but these 5 work very well.

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